Talk · Your Relationship With Allah | 2025 Ramadan Series, part 21 of 31

A State of Thankfulness | Your Relationship With Allah Ep.20 | Sh. Alauddin ElBakri | Ramadan Series

Shaykh Alauddin ElBakri

Transcript

9 moments mention “Quran”:

  1. last episode we spoke
  2. about consistency persistency
  3. perseverance and endurance today we will
  4. talk about shukur they always go hand in
  5. hand one to have thankfulness to Allah
  6. subhana wa ta'ala and the other one is
  7. to have endurance and perseverance with
  8. Allah subhah wa taala there's two words
  9. in the Quran that is mentioned to
  10. express thankfulness and gratitude one
  11. is mentioned in the first Ayah in
  12. alhamd all prais is due to Allah subhana
  13. wa tala what's the difference between
  14. alham and when you mention alham it
  15. could mean aukur or the other way around
  16. but specifically alham is bigger and
  17. wider if you use it alone it means I
  18. thank Allah for the good times and the
  19. hard times and the bad times because
  20. it's all perception good times is your
  21. perception of Good Times hard times and
  22. bad times is your perception maybe these
  23. hard times you're going through is the
  24. best news in your life that later on all
  25. of your success will be built on this
  26. hard moment that you don't like now so
  27. Allah subhana tala is asking us to do
  28. something interesting when you have good
  29. times because you perceive it's good
  30. hold on to your faith have sa when you
  31. have difficult
  32. times think beyond the moment and have
  33. shuk be thankful to Allah it's
  34. counterintuitive we think we should use
  35. patience with bad times and thankfulness
  36. with good times Allah invites us for a
  37. higher standard when it is good times
  38. hold on persevere don't lose it don't
  39. lose your Iman don't get carried away
  40. with Dunya when you have hard times open
  41. your eyes this might be the best thing
  42. that ever happened to you so you become
  43. thankful so like literally switching the
  44. roles shuk to Allah subhana tala is when
  45. something is clear that it's a blessing
  46. and you say but in general the word and
  47. Sh also inside it means
  48. Al may Allah grant us
  49. both when you are thankful to Allah how
  50. do we become thankful to Allah first
  51. with your tongue but with your tongue
  52. your tongue shall not express something
  53. that is not in your heart so actually
  54. first we start with the heart the tongue
  55. overflows with what is in the heart
  56. so what is in your heart you see to be
  57. thankful to Allah and grateful you
  58. should be positive you should have a
  59. state of you know Thinking Beyond the
  60. event as I have been saying this
  61. positivity will Propel you to be
  62. grateful and thankful to Allah subhana
  63. wa ta'ala it starts in the
  64. heart Allah is pleased with them and
  65. they are pleased with Allah your heart
  66. is pleased with Allah and and no matter
  67. what life throws at you your heart is
  68. pleased with Allah your mind your soul
  69. state of positivity that now overflows
  70. it overflows on your words so when you
  71. say alhamdulillah you say what you mean
  72. you mean what you say thank Allah for
  73. everything that I'm going through so
  74. then it you see how much the prophet
  75. sallallahu alaihi wasallam teach us to
  76. be thankful to ground Us in this state
  77. of positivity after every Salah we say
  78. alhamdulillah 33 times that if you you
  79. know if you're not going to get one time
  80. two times three times how about 33 times
  81. you should definitely get this idea of
  82. shukur after saying alhamdulillah 33
  83. times our Prophet sallallahu alaihi
  84. wasallam shows us that shukur is a state
  85. of heart it's a state of tongue it
  86. overflows on the actions to be thankful
  87. and grateful to someone is to show it in
  88. action not lip service oh thank you for
  89. what you have done for me but when they
  90. need you you're never there for them
  91. these are cheap words lip service as a
  92. Believer you turn the state of being of
  93. gratitude to words and then to actions
  94. Subhan Allah Allah wanted to put us back
  95. in our place in Al Quran I smile every
  96. time I read this Ayah
  97. in whosoever grateful to Allah he's only
  98. grateful to himself he's only thankful
  99. to himself meaning don't get into your
  100. head that oh Allah needs your attention
  101. or needs your thankfulness or any of
  102. that you are the beneficiary when you
  103. live in a positive state of mind and
  104. heart you are the beneficiary and guess
  105. what Allah tells us more he
  106. says and your lord has declared that if
  107. you are thankful to me I will give you
  108. more Subhan Allah this statement I will
  109. give you more has an implicit like imply
  110. promise inside it you can only have more
  111. and add if you keep what you have so
  112. let's say you're grateful for your
  113. health for Allah to give you more you
  114. should stay healthy and become more
  115. healthy so when Allah says if you're
  116. thankful to me I'll give you more it
  117. means I'll let you keep what you have
  118. and I'll give you more Subhan Allah this
  119. is so beautiful and this is the
  120. immediate reward of thankfulness you see
  121. when you are thankful to Allah you don't
  122. have to wait till you die and then
  123. resurrect on the day of judgment and
  124. then you go to Jenna then you see the
  125. reward you actually see it in this world
  126. this key this very easy key of having
  127. more through gratitude most people don't
  128. do it so Allah said in the
  129. Quran few of my servants are thankful so
  130. we really want to be part of this Elite
  131. few Club of people who are thankful to
  132. allaha
  133. grateful no matter what the Times Are
  134. Good Times Hard Times They always find
  135. it in themselves to say
  136. alhamd one of the things that really
  137. struck me hard after I read the whole
  138. Quran you know even at young age is that
  139. in the Quran Allah give us three
  140. examples of what happened when a person
  141. is not thankful you know there's a rule
  142. in the Quran if Allah tells you do
  143. something but he doesn't tell you what's
  144. the punishment if you don't do it or
  145. what's going to happen it is less
  146. then when Allah tells you do something
  147. and this is the consequence if you don't
  148. do it this could be the consequence or
  149. the punishment in the case of being
  150. thankful to Allah Allah give us the
  151. consequences on the level of the
  152. individuals on the level of the families
  153. and on the level of the Nations on the
  154. level of the individuals Allah told us
  155. the story
  156. of he
  157. was was from the people of Musa he was
  158. an Israelite but he was so rich the
  159. Pharaoh overlooked the fact that was
  160. from the Israelites because he was a
  161. sellout because he Associated himself
  162. with the Pharaoh because you know he he
  163. hung up with a rich people not with his
  164. own people and this man was so rich that
  165. Allah said that he kept his wealth in
  166. safes like rooms the rooms had keys the
  167. keys were so heavy for a group of
  168. muscular strong men to carry it imagine
  169. carrying the keys is hard for a group of
  170. men these Keys have are keys of doors
  171. doors of rooms rooms full of well of
  172. jewelry and gold and God knows what but
  173. he was so ungrateful to Allah and he was
  174. so boastful in front of the Israelites
  175. the Israelites had nothing they were
  176. slaves and he rubbed it in their faces
  177. and he you know he had far meaning I'll
  178. show you who boss I'll show you who's
  179. blessed you know I am special I am
  180. different Subhan Allah Allah made his
  181. house where the wealth is and all of
  182. these saves and him Allah made like a
  183. sinkhole so the Earth swallowed him and
  184. closed and people could see the effect
  185. of that like sinking and closing and
  186. they said yesterday they were wishing to
  187. be like him it's the same thing with
  188. human beings across when you see a rich
  189. people and rich person I wish I'm like
  190. him don't wish something that you don't
  191. know because the consequences is the
  192. earth swallowed him because he stood up
  193. with the Pharaoh instead of standing up
  194. with Moses he stood up with the one who
  195. was killing the babies and killing the
  196. the children instead of standing with
  197. the truth and supporting Moses Allah
  198. punished him Second Story in the Quran
  199. is when Allah mentioned it's in the
  200. second Surah revealed in the
  201. Quran Allah said there is a family the
  202. father had a farm he used to sell from
  203. the farm fruits and vegetables and he
  204. used to give poor people every day for
  205. for free he passed away his children had
  206. a meeting the night he died and they
  207. said our father did not have a proper
  208. business approach what is this business
  209. of giving charity every day how can we
  210. do that tomorrow we're going to close
  211. the farm we're not going to give the
  212. poor people any more starting tomorrow
  213. next day they went while they were
  214. sleeping that night Allah sent a tornado
  215. destroyed the farm next day when they
  216. went they found a destroyed Farm they
  217. did not even recognize that it was their
  218. Farm they all repented to Allah and
  219. Allah said that he replaced them with
  220. something better but the point is
  221. sometimes a whole family can go Rogue
  222. and go to the wrong side of history and
  223. and change the uh method of their
  224. forefathers the father was good but
  225. Allah rewarded him that when his
  226. children saw the farm they all woke up
  227. and repented to Allah out of reward to
  228. the father who raised these children
  229. children they learned the hard way very
  230. quickly same night and the third story
  231. in the Quran is a story of a Nation
  232. called Sab they were in Yemen and Allah
  233. described That civilization as the most
  234. flourishing you know Al Yen used to be
  235. called
  236. Al the happy Yemen because the whole
  237. world used to go there and like just to
  238. see the farms and how the fruits fall
  239. right from the trees Subhan Allah they
  240. were in the state of obedience to Allah
  241. so Allah gave them two gardens they
  242. built uh a
  243. dam when they changed their ways and
  244. went into mischief and into sinning and
  245. stopped giving the poor and changed
  246. their ways Allah sent against them a
  247. flood that flooded destroyed the dam
  248. that they built overflew and flooded the
  249. farms on the right and on the left and
  250. after having of every fruit that your
  251. heart would wish to have they had
  252. nothing but little destroyed fruits it's
  253. fascinating how Allah gave us the
  254. consequences of being ungrateful on the
  255. level of the individual the level of the
  256. family and the level of the nation
  257. that's why we have to take this topic
  258. very seriously most of us don't even
  259. think about it you eat you don't even
  260. thank Allah subhana tala do you know
  261. what the prophet sallallahu alaihi
  262. wasallam said he said if a servant eats
  263. Allah loves a servant that eats food and
  264. he thanks Allah drinks water and he
  265. thanks Allah it's very simple not
  266. complicated and he said if a person eats
  267. and says alhamdulillah and the long
  268. version Allah will forgive all of your
  269. previous sins a Moment of clarity before
  270. you start you say you look at the food
  271. thank you Allah after you're done you
  272. say alhamdulillah that will give you a
  273. strong relationship with Allah it
  274. doesn't have to be like extraordinary as
  275. I said it's not complicated it's very
  276. simple we make it complicated and
  277. imagine you copy that with everything
  278. alhamdulillah for the car like when
  279. you're driving to work in the morning
  280. alhamdulillah for the car alhamdulillah
  281. I have a job alhamdulillah I have a
  282. family alhamdulillah thank God thank God
  283. thank God alhamdulillah oh my God things
  284. are going to keep on getting better
  285. inshallah tala and if hard times hit you
  286. you will also say alh
  287. because it might be the thing that
  288. changes your life to the best
A State of Thankfulness | Your Relationship With Allah Ep.20 | Sh. Alauddin ElBakri | Ramadan Series · Tawasaw Institute