Do Not Go Overboard | Your Relationship With Allah Ep. 27 | Sh. Alauddin ElBakri | Ramadan Series

1 moment mention “Gratitude”: 4:25

1. 0:02and welcome back to Ramadan series your
2. 0:04relationship with Allah subhah waala we
3. 0:07covered the list of the categories of
4. 0:11people whom Allah loves he stated
5. 0:14clearly I love those types of people but
6. 0:18Allah give us another list in the Quran
7. 0:20I don't love these types of people so
8. 0:24that is an enough hint for the believer
9. 0:27when Allah says to him or to her I don't
10. 0:30love these types of people that you make
11. 0:32sure you are not one of these categories
12. 0:36the first category is
13. 0:39in Allah does not love
14. 0:43transgressors people who go
15. 0:45overboard and
16. 0:47interestingly this context has been used
17. 0:50in three different ayat this statement
18. 0:53one aah in which
19. 0:55allaha tells us do not make that which
20. 0:59is permissible
21. 1:00impermissible do not make something that
22. 1:02is halalam just because you're excited
23. 1:05and you want to make things you make
24. 1:07sure that things are tight and what is
25. 1:10halal and what is Haram is purely
26. 1:12Allah's business he's the only one who
27. 1:14can claim something permissible or not
28. 1:16permissible so to go overboard that's
29. 1:20extremism that's transgressing that's
30. 1:22going overflowing
31. 1:25overboard Allah does not love that it
32. 1:27doesn't make Allah more happy of you if
33. 1:31you make more things Haram that should
34. 1:34be clear to every Muslim yet I met
35. 1:37people in my life that this is not clear
36. 1:39to them the second category that Allah
37. 1:42gave us that Allah says when you make
38. 1:45Dua make Dua
39. 1:49with you know spell your heart out to
40. 1:52Allah subhana tala be you know kind of
41. 1:56hidden between you and Allah but don't
42. 1:59go in the middle of the Masjid and start
43. 2:02making very loud Dua obnoxiously
44. 2:06disturbing everyone in the Masjid the
45. 2:08prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said
46. 2:10you're not calling upon someone who is
47. 2:13deaf or blind so when you ask Allah
48. 2:17subhana tala lower your voice and ask
49. 2:21Allah in general not in specifics Ya
50. 2:25Allah please give me a house and it has
51. 2:27to be four bedroomroom and three bath
52. 2:30and two kitchens any this is not a Dua
53. 2:33anymore
54. 2:36so ask Allah in general and lower your
55. 2:40voice and make it moderate that going
56. 2:43overboard with Dua will not make Allah
57. 2:46love you more but Dua itself is a and
58. 2:50it's a bless thing to have my dear
59. 2:52brothers and sisters Allah also said in
60. 2:55the context of being attacked if someone
61. 2:59attack you as an individual as a family
62. 3:02as a country answer the attack with a
63. 3:05similar force and do not go overboard
64. 3:09I'm going to teach you a lesson in
65. 3:11history that you will never forget for
66. 3:14the rest of your life you and the next
67. 3:1610 Generations what's happening in GZA
68. 3:19is an example of that as if there is no
69. 3:22God there is no day of judgment people
70. 3:24act thinking they will never be stopped
71. 3:27and they will never pay the price they
72. 3:30will pay the price if not in this world
73. 3:32in the Hereafter my dear brothers and
74. 3:34sisters Allah tells us you
75. 3:37know do not transgress do not go
76. 3:40overboard for Allah does not love those
77. 3:43who go overboard this means that we have
78. 3:45to tame our personality to be moderate
79. 3:48people not too loose not too tight not
80. 3:52too strict not too easy but rather
81. 3:56follow the example of prophet Muhammad
82. 3:59sallallahu alai am the next category
83. 4:01that Allah told us that he does not love
84. 4:04in the
85. 4:05[Music]
86. 4:09Quran that Allah does not love people
87. 4:12who are ungrateful and you know very
88. 4:18beautiful whosoever is not thankful to
89. 4:21people he's not thankful to Allah you
90. 4:23know when you help someone and help and
91. 4:25they don't even show gratitude they
92. 4:27can't even call you and say thank you
93. 4:29you that's not of Islam you don't say oh
94. 4:32you help me but Allah made you help me
95. 4:34so I'm going to thank Allah and I'm not
96. 4:36going to thank you that's not Islam
97. 4:38that's not the way we think so Allah
98. 4:41does not appreciate does not love
99. 4:44someone who's ungrateful whether
100. 4:46ungrateful to him subhah wa ta'ala or
101. 4:49he's ungrateful to people around him who
102. 4:51have sacrificed and helped him this is
103. 4:54not a character that Allah likes to see
104. 4:57in a Believer Allah likes to see us
105. 4:59thank ful grateful appreciative
106. 5:02considerate that we don't forget when
107. 5:05someone helped us with something you
108. 5:08know we will always remember and we will
109. 5:10always try to pay it either back or pay
110. 5:13it forward that's who we are as a
111. 5:15Believer the third category of people
112. 5:18that Allah mentioned in the Quran that
113. 5:19he does not love
114. 5:23is Allah does not love people who betray
115. 5:28others deceive bels deiters people who
116. 5:32are ready to switch on you stab you in
117. 5:35the back betray you Allah does not love
118. 5:38that and what a bad character to have as
119. 5:41a Believer we Believers we are truthful
120. 5:46honest we will stand with you whether
121. 5:50you stood up with us or not we will
122. 5:52always be thankful grateful but Allah
123. 5:55does not love Alan the prophet
124. 5:58sallallahu alaihi wasallam talked about
125. 6:00this betrayal that the hypocrite has
126. 6:04three characters
127. 6:06either if he speaks he
128. 6:10lies if he promises he breaks his
129. 6:16promise and if he is entrusted with a
130. 6:20trust he will betray the trust this is
131. 6:23what Allah does not love this is one of
132. 6:25the characteristics of the believer do
133. 6:28not try to betray your spouse by
134. 6:31cheating on them do not betray your boss
135. 6:34at work if they're not looking you're
136. 6:36not working do not betray your own
137. 6:39children by not teaching them their
138. 6:42faith and teaching them good character
139. 6:44and give them equip them with something
140. 6:47that they will succeed with in life do
141. 6:50not betray your responsibilities do not
142. 6:53betray your family by not spending on
143. 6:56them do not betray your loved ones by
144. 6:59not spending time and showing them love
145. 7:02it's in every direction and dimension in
146. 7:05our lives that betrayal is a no no for
147. 7:09the believer may Allah Asel not make us
148. 7:13from those who betray others from those
149. 7:15who
150. 7:16transgress or from those who lie in
151. 7:20their speech